whats the point of being a hopeless romantic. HOPELESS is right in the couple of words. your hoping one day the man of your dreams is going to sweep you off your feet passionately kiss you that makes your skin tingle all over the place. He'll stare at you from across the room while you are elegantly laughing with a friend. He'll watch you as your sleeping and wonder how he gets so lucky. He'll brag to all his friends how fricken awesome his girlfriend is. He will be able to tell you why he loves you,or write you the most romantic things ever. He'll be able to express himself.
But quite frankely, i dont believe this man exists. The man who started out bad and ended up realizing he was wrong and changes. The man who never ever believed in marriage but at the end of the movie gets married. These men who are depicted in these movies are fake. They feel so real when you watching them, they warm our hearts, they win us over. But at end of the story, you are elft feeling lost. because this man doesnt live. In real life, there is barely time to passionately kiss one another since everything is rushed. If you do, then it means you want sex, or you get question or told no not now. These days, guys are staring at toher girls across the room at the girls who are laughing with their breasts hanging out of their shirts falling on the ground drunk. These days the men fall asleep before you do and end up snoring in their sleep. People dont change, and old romance is out the window. We are of the 21st century kind of love now. These movies tho, they set you up in this fantasy worl and they make you believe that hey this could happen. Sure everybody deserves this kind of love. realisticly though its still fake.
now for me, i would surely fall for a guy like this i would. He sounds perfect. But in the end i would be bored. i definately think i would get bored. sure he sounds perfect but i like the silly fights i have with my boyfriend. the fact that he elbows me in the face about 10 times a month irnoically all on accident. or the fact that around his friends he's a chill guy, but around me he's all cuddly and mushy. I love the fact that he's a dork and he's fully confident with himself. i love that he offers me anything that would make me happy. that he listens to me no matter how many times im upset over something. i love that when i say im crying he'll drop everything to talk to me until im ok to get off the phone. if i havnt eaten he'll make me something or make me eat even when im lieing and saying im not hungry. i love the way he get's excited for the most stupidest things, and he'll get excited for me. he is interested in where my life is headed. i love the way our bodies feel together. or the way when he hugs me from behind and kisses me on my neck it sends shivers all around my body. or whne he grabs me, or touches me, or holds my hand and im just not expecting it my stomach is dancing with butterflies. its the way we are togehter. its the way he makes me feel. he takes me for who i am and even if i cant accept that he still loves me. i have so many flaws and he still acepts me. as hard as it may be, i accept that his road leads him in oneonta and mine does not. i accept that fact that he cant tell me why he's in love with me, i accept that he has no shame for farting like a trumbone. im not perfect, im moody and insecure at times. i have ad a hard ast with peoppleand its hard for me to trust. i love him he loves me. girls want prince charming, guys want the hot supermodel from the movie. but when you give up those fantasies you end somewhere in themiddle, you end up with something real. you end up with something perfect. so being that hopeless romantic is pointless. stop waiting around for the perfect guy, stop being hopeless. me myself. im just romantic, i love love, and i love my man, forhis imperfections, for everything.